Nigel Dube`s blogs

 Sexual intimacy seems to be a sensitive subject, if not the hardest subject to discuss in marriages. Some couples have great sexual intimacy, others have hit rock bottom, oftentimes leading to divorce. Sex can be social and biological. An investigation of the response of the body to sex by Masters and Johnson identified four stages of human sexual response which are excitement, plateau, orgasm, resolution. They mentioned that during the response there are two basic physiological reactions. One involves an increased concentration of blood in bodily tissues in the genitals and the female breast and the other an increase in the nerve and muscles throughout the body. This leads to those four stages that will lead to sexual intimacy. Comparing the two genders; men tend to have a high sex drive compared to women, they tend to think about it, fantasize about it, and desire sexual intercourse more often. This high sex drive can be attributed to how their organs function. Men have testicle...

 Marriage! The union of two people for a very long time is an important step that any person will take in their life. It takes intention and planning to have a successful marriage. Authenticity is also a requisite principle in having a genuine and fulfilling marriage. When to get married, is an elephant in the building. Some people delay marriage for reasons such as finance and past experiences. On the other hand, some get married very early in their adult life. Lois M. Collins, a member of Deseret News observed two different marriages. She observed that young marriages are called cornerstones marriages because they provide a foundation as partners forge family life and hit some milestones together like education and career together, often struggling financially at the start. On the other hand, Capstone marriages on the other hand involve people who are 25 or older. The term acknowledges that the individuals have already launched and felt ready to cap off accomplishments like educa...

 Marriage is considered an important thing in any culture anywhere in the world. Though important marriage can be some people adore it from a distance and shun committing themselves to it. Initially, during the era of the Roman Empire, people got married for political reasons and financial stability. Though it might be the same case for some reasons for marrying in this era, for the most part, the reasons have changed. Today the desire to get married has reduced amongst adults throughout the world. Some people, just don’t want to get married because of commitment issues, whilst others find it hard to get the right spouse for them, either because they haven’t found the right match, or they are not that attractive to attract the other sex. Despite all these reasons, people naturally want to get married, but the action part is still a struggle. Starting from the bottom going up, one might ask what are the foundational principles of a marriage? Or let alone what are people looking for ...

 The creation of the duality of sexes by God was far from being a mistake, rather it was a purposeful and divine endeavor to show the uniqueness and different functionalities of these sexes. These sexes are complementary to the other. Through observation, there is plenty of evidence especially in young children where females are observed to be more nurturing, cooperative, communicative, sensitive to emotion, and emotionally expressive. These observations were seen especially playing with toys. Young female children tend to play dress up and have imaginary families where they would be nurtured in the fantasy family. On the contrary, the young male children are more engaged in active and combat style of playing, very competitive and aggressive. These differences show a natural inclination to different preferences from different genders. Some psychologists have pointed out that hormones are the major causes of these differences. Furthermore, these differences complement each other to ...