Sexual Oriention Differences!

 The creation of the duality of sexes by God was far from being a mistake, rather it was a purposeful and divine endeavor to show the uniqueness and different functionalities of these sexes. These sexes are complementary to the other. Through observation, there is plenty of evidence especially in young children where females are observed to be more nurturing, cooperative, communicative, sensitive to emotion, and emotionally expressive. These observations were seen especially playing with toys. Young female children tend to play dress up and have imaginary families where they would be nurtured in the fantasy family. On the contrary, the young male children are more engaged in active and combat style of playing, very competitive and aggressive. These differences show a natural inclination to different preferences from different genders. Some psychologists have pointed out that hormones are the major causes of these differences. Furthermore, these differences complement each other to accomplish their divine purposes. This is evident in marriages where the female is more focused on nurturing, understanding the emotions of the family members and most importantly igniting the communication between the couple. The male acts as a protector, provider for the family because of the natural active and aggressive behavior they have. One interesting observational difference is the laser focus that males naturally have and the multitasking and multi awareness that females have. This is beneficial because the approach to different situations can be balanced when the two genders coordinate. These natural characteristics of both men and women are essential in fulfilling the divine responsibilities of being a provide and nurture respectively. It is interesting to also observe that men want to be respected by their wives and women want to be cherished by their husbands. These differences are interesting because the security expected by the females from males is being protected and provided for and the security that women provide is emotional security, they are more emotionally expressive and sensitive, and they provide that atmosphere of emotional expression. Rules and relationships are two focuses of these different sexes. Women focus more on relationships because they are more communicative and expressive with their feelings, they tend to want strong relationships that positively affect their emotional state. On the other hand, men are more concerned about rules because they are obsessed with respect and pride. The aggression difference is very interesting between the two sexes. Men are more physically aggressive; they tend to get into fights and be involved in more risk-taking behavior whilst females tend to be aggressive through challenging the social status of other females. This is interesting because females are more focused on how people around them feel about them, and males don’t care about their surroundings. Whilst trying to explain the differences between males and females, some anomalies can happen, and we see more female characteristics on males and vice versa. Often this causes controversy and debate especially on the subject of same-sex attraction. Many different theories have been formed to explain these anomalies. Most of these theories explain that biological variables are the main causes of these rare sex differences. Other explanations like traumatic experiences can cause changes in sexual behavior. To further explain this, someone who was sexually abused at a young age can choose to be different and change sexual orientation, sometimes to protect herself from the traumatic experience or sometimes because of the resentment they will have towards their sex natural sexual orientation. One more interesting thing is that when either a male or female see that they are different from their sex, oftentimes they feel ostracized and left out. Because of being ostracized, they reach a stage where they still want to be accepted and they go the extra mile to try and get attention from their sex. This overtime led to same-sex attraction ignited by attention-seeking zeal. In conclusion, the difference in sexes is an important aspect of humanity because it brings unique approaches to different life situations which is very important.